How To Cope With Dementia: Essex County Expert Shares Tips

ESSEX COUNTY, NJ — There may be nearly five million people living with Alzheimer’s disease in the U.S. Worldwide, there may be close to 50 million people diagnosed with dementia, experts say.

But despite the seriousness of these medical conditions, there are steps that a person’s loved ones can take to help spot – and cope with – their symptoms, an Essex County medical provider says.

Meaghan Scott, a certified dementia practitioner from Right at Home of Essex County, recently shared the following list of tips for families seeking to help a loved one with dementia.

Signs of early-onset Alzheimer's or other types of dementia

1. Losing interest in activities and/or desire to socialize. This may be because of dementia-related depression, but it could also be your loved one's inability to keep up with a calendar and schedule. Ask questions and propose solutions (like reminders) when able.

2. Change in personality. Keep in mind, symptoms of dementia may include anxiety, depression, anger, mood swings, etc. These symptoms could contribute to behavior you have not seen before. Personality changes may be dramatic or subtle over time.

3. Poor hygiene habits. Do you notice Mom or Dad wearing the same outfit repeatedly? Or perhaps they say they have showered, but the bathroom has dry or unused towels in it. Keep an eye on basic hygiene habits and changes in daily routine.

4. Forgetting common words or phrases. This seems obvious but requires close

attention. It may not be that noticeable at first but can indicate a larger issue. Forgetting words may happen when speaking or writing.

5. Spoiled food in the kitchen. Take a peek in the fridge next time you visit Mom or Dad. Is there food? Is it safe to eat? Preparing a meal may not be as easy as it used to be, which can become discouraging. Your loved one may also be forgetting to eat.

6. Exhibiting poor judgment. Is your loved one going out for groceries in a snowstorm or calling family members at 1 a.m. just to talk? Your loved one may be losing the ability to make good decisions, which presents a number of safety issues and risks.

How To Cope

1. Observe and listen; do not correct. You may feel compelled to correct your loved one’s mistakes, but it may leave them feeling even more confused or attacked. Correct only when necessary.

2. Establish a routine. Help keep their lives as normal as possible. The routine will also help your loved one keep track of the day and time.

3. Encourage socialization and family time. Do not shy away from your family member with dementia. They need your love and support. If family is not available, consider hiring someone for companionship and assistance with the activities of daily living.

4. Be kind. It can be very frustrating to see your loved one changing. Understand that while they may not always show it, they are scared and anxious, too. Do your best to be patient and show love. Consult a professional if necessary.

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