I have procrastinated relaying my tale of attendance at my recent high school class reunion. If you are a woman, you know why. It is the moment you come face to face with all the insecurities you have been carrying around since seventh grade when you realized that an in crowd existed, and you weren’t part of it. Other humiliations accumulated over the years, which further illustrated just how inadequate you were in so many areas- – socially, academically and romantically. It is a wonder you had any friends at all.