Steve Cox dances to a new beat in retirement

When Steve Cox accepted a transportation position at King-Bruwaert House in 2014, he wasn’t expecting duties that would bring him center stage. But three years after he started, Cox was asked to join The K-B Adorables and Men in Black dance and fitness troupe, learning moves and steps he never tried before.

“I guess I just rolled with it,” Cox said who retired from KBH late July. “The previous driver had been part of the dance troupe and it seemed like something I could do. I had to drive the bus anyway so it all worked out. It was a new experience for me, especially since I had never taken any dance lessons.”

Beyond his dance performances and excellent driving skills, Cox also tried his hand at instructional classes for KBH residents and staff. He taught small groups how to make knitted hats using round looms of various sizes. Years ago, Cox learned how to knit with a loom and he has been making colorful, decorative hats and donating many of them to Operation Warm Hearts at KBH and other agencies.

Cox packed in crowds for his popular cookie-making classes where he showcased two of his favorite treats – shortbread and lace cookies. Too yummy for words, Cox’s tasty cookies had people lining up to sample his specialties and request recipes. He also took on Santa’s role for residents, staff and family members during the holidays. His big smile and warm disposition touched the hearts of true Santa believers of all ages.

Cox expects to be choreographing a new lifestyle almost immediately. Having a 12-year association with the non-profit Medical Surgical Mission of Texas (MSMT), Cox plans to continue his voluntary work with his wife, Lourdes. MSMT provides free medical and surgical services to underprivileged families in the Philippines. Those involved include medical and surgical providers, clinicians, nurses, administrative aides, social workers and volunteers.

“We visit the Philippines at least once a year and help with the mission for four-to six days,” Cox said. “The doctors and nurses who lead the Mission offer medical checks, medications, physicals and some surgeries – all free of charge,” he said. “They connect with local doctors for any surgical follow-ups. Many local surgeons are always willing to help.”

Throughout the year, Cox also collects clothing, toys, furniture and household items that he then ships to the Philippines for distribution during mission days. The Coxes underwrite shipping fees but accept donations from many people who want to offer help and support.

Cox is known to have a big heart and a thoughtful presence, providing personal attention to residents, staff and families.

“Steve goes out of his way to help residents who often need more than just a ride somewhere,” said KBH Resident and Wellness Manager Shareen Klasing. “He is a huge comfort to the residents who go to their regularly scheduled doctor’s appointments. He is genuinely interested in what is going on in their lives. He has become more than just their driver. He has become their friend, their confidant, their rock. We will truly miss him.”